First Steps and Trailblazers: The Inaugural Mardi Gras Debutante Ball

Sydney’s iconic Mardi Gras gained a new and heartwarming chapter with the recent “Debutante Ball by Johnnie Walker,” a first-of-its-kind event welcoming LGBTQIA+ individuals embarking on their Mardi Gras journey. The vibrant evening at Kinselas was filled with personal stories, community spirit, and a celebration of diversity.

Eight courageous individuals shared their stories, earning tickets to this historic event. They were joined by headlining “first-timer,” singer and actress Natalie Bassingthwaighte, who publicly came out as queer earlier this year. This momentous occasion witnessed the mingling of these newcomers with established trailblazers and veterans of the Mardi Gras community, including the esteemed 78er and LGBTQIA+ advocate Robyn Kennedy and acclaimed judge of Making It Australia, Benja Harney.

Beyond the celebratory atmosphere, the Debutante Ball held a significant purpose. All proceeds were proudly donated to Equality Australia, a national force championing the rights and dignity of LGBTIQ+ individuals. This vital organization utilizes legal, policy, and campaigning expertise to ensure equality and respect for the community.

Among the stories shared that evening was Jacinta Kretschmer’s, a testament to the evolving landscape of acceptance. Having lived a life filled with societal expectations and personal confusion, Jacinta came out at the age of 50. Despite initial challenges, she found strength and solace through the LGBTQIA+ community.

“I came out again, but this time it could be a truly joyful event and to become part of this beautiful community,” she said, reflecting on the significance of the Debutante Ball.

Cheree Marie Pertini’s story resonated with many. Growing up in a traditional environment, she suppressed her true identity for years. It wasn’t until after marriage and becoming great parents she had a pivotal connection with another woman that Cheree embraced her sexuality. Yet, finding her place within the broader community proved challenging.

“I was shy, I didn’t drink much, and all those gay people looked like they knew what they were doing,” she expressed, highlighting the hurdles faced by some within the community. Fortunately, she found support through organizations like B Friend, allowing her to connect with others and build meaningful connections.

The Debutante Ball wasn’t just a party; it was a symbol of inclusivity, a platform for individual stories to be heard, and a powerful reminder of the ongoing fight for equality. As these first-timers embarked on their Mardi Gras experience, they were met with a welcoming embrace from both established members and allies, creating a vibrant tapestry of past, present, and future within the LGBTQIA+ community.

Last Updated on Mar 1, 2024